5 Ways To Navigate Finding Love This Year

Modern dating for some can sometimes feel like an unhealthy habitual process of swipe, match, delete, repeat. For others it can feel like yo-yo-ing between connection and disconnection. Others might describe it as feeling stuck in a reality TV show, complete with plot twists, disappearing acts, and the occasional villain. Between endless swiping, unread messages, and ghosting (which has somewhat become a norm), finding love can seem harder than getting a text back from someone who “definitely had a great time.” And, when you do connect with someone you might like, it can feel like the grass may be greener on the other side of the next swipe. 

This is what we call the paradox of choice: having so many singles quite literally at our fingertips when dating in 2025, we don’t know how or who to choose. And when we do eventually choose, sometimes those people don’t choose us. That can feel hard and makes modern dating feel tricky. But, it doesn’t have to feel this way. 

Love is still very much on the cards; it just requires a bit of a mindset shift. Most people want the same thing but have different paths with how they navigate finding it.

By setting intentions and being clear about how you want to show up and who you want to attract will help you pave the way.

At The Love Collective Global we offer a holistic approach to find love through coaching, matchmaking, events, therapy and workshops for singles and couples to get the love they deserve. Here are our five game-changing secrets to help navigate the wild world of dating and actually make it work in your favour.

1. Step Away from the Screen: Real-Life Connections Are Gold

Yes, online dating has its place - no judgement here. But let’s be real, how often does it lead to something meaningful? Swiping through profiles can feel like an endless game of Bumble roulette, where the odds are rarely in your favour. Unfortunately, feeling sparks through a screen rarely leads to something significant? 

The best relationships? They usually start in the real world - through mutual interests, a chance encounter, a shared experience, or, dare we say, actual human interaction. That doesn’t mean you have to suddenly become the biggest extrovert out there. Small changes work wonders: say yes to that party invite, strike up a conversation while waiting for your overpriced oat milk latte, or simply make eye contact with people (yes, you can do it!). Start with one encounter daily. And if you do want to step out of your comfort zone, join us at one of our Singles Events. Our aim is to hold space and make you feel as comfortable as possible. 

2. Get a Dating Coach - Yes, Really

The idea of a dating coach might seem a bit extra, but think about it: we hire personal trainers to get in shape, career coaches to land the dream job, yet when it comes to relationships, the thing that affects happiness more than almost anything, we’re just expected to “figure it out.”

A good dating coach helps break bad habits, navigate first-date nerves, and decode the baffling world of modern romance. If you’re stuck in the same frustrating patterns, investing in some guidance might just be the game-changer you need. Because let’s face it, winging it hasn’t exactly been working. 

3. Personal Matchmaking: Let The Love Collective Do the Hard Work for You

We’ve established that modern dating seems to be just a giant game of trial and error. And that’s where personal matchmaking changes everything. Instead of endlessly swiping and hoping for the best, why not work with experts who actually know what they’re doing?

At The Love Collective, matchmaking, it’s all about understanding you - what you need, what you value, and what kind of partner will genuinely complement your life. Think of it as having someone who filters out the time-wasters and introduces you to people who are actually looking for something real like you are.

If you’re tired of the dating chaos and ready for a more tailored approach, why not make an enquiry? Your future love story could start with one simple step. (Hint: It’s right here at The Love Collective Global!)

4. Know Yourself First: Workshops & Retreats That Actually Help

Before you find them, you need to find you! We have found that a surprising number of dating struggles come from not fully understanding what we truly need in a partner. That’s why self-discovery is just as important as the search for love.

The Love Collective’s workshops and retreats aren’t about cheesy icebreakers or forced bonding, they’re designed to help you uncover your relationship patterns, understand your attachment style, and figure out what really makes you tick. Imagine dating with actual clarity, knowing the right questions to ask to your potential match, instead of repeating the same old patterns. Sounds like a win, right?

If you’re ready to break out of the cycle and build a foundation for real, lasting love, take a look at our upcoming workshops and retreats. Trust us, your future self (and future partner) will thank you.

5. Individual Relationship Therapy: Because Love Starts with You

Think of relationship therapy as a health-check for your love life. Even if you’re single, working with a therapist can help clear out emotional roadblocks, boost your confidence, and set you up for a healthier, happier relationship when the right person does come along.

Whether it’s lingering baggage from past relationships, struggles with trust, or just wanting to understand yourself better, therapy isn’t about “fixing” you… it’s about empowering you. Because when you feel secure and self-assured, you naturally attract better connections.

So, if you’ve been feeling stuck, frustrated, or just unsure about your dating journey, why not invest in yourself? A little self-work now can lead to a whole lot of love later. Enquire here.

The Bottom Line? Love is out there! Dating may be a minefield, but it’s not impossible. So, be brave and take yourself out your comfort zone, have a little faith, and trust the process. And if you need a little help along the way? You know where to find the experts. 

Written by Cate Millar,

Cate is a brand communication and expansion specialist at The Love Collective. Cate is passionate about helping support people in interpersonal relationships, with a focus on the romantic kind.