How to Successfully Navigate Singles Events

Let’s face it - dating in 2025 can feel like trying to find a specific grain of sand on Brighton Beach. There are apps, algorithms, and AI matchmakers trying to pair you up based on your star sign and preferred oat milk. But sometimes, the best way to meet someone is the old-fashioned way: face-to-face.

Enter dating events - duh duh duhhhhh

But how do you survive (and thrive) in this modern social jungle? Here’s your ultimate guide to making the most of dating events in 2025.

1. Work the Room Like You’re the Host/Hostess of a Party

Even if your heart is thudding louder than the background music, adopt the mindset of a party host. Smile, say hello, and float around like everyone’s already your friend. Not only does this make you seem confident and approachable, but it also takes the pressure off awkward introductions.

Remember: no one needs to know that you secretly rehearsed your conversation starters on the Tube.

2. Go Alone - Seriously

It’s tempting to drag your best mate along for moral support, but trust us, this will backfire. Groups of friends tend to form impenetrable circles, making it harder for anyone to break in. Plus, your friend might inadvertently steal the spotlight when they mention that time you drunkenly tried to adopt a cat.

Flying solo forces you to be open and engage with others. You’ll thank yourself later.

When choosing a dating event, look for spaces that prioritise inclusivity, respect, and emotional safety. The best events foster an environment where you can explore connections without pressure, allowing for meaningful interactions in a supportive setting.

3. Dress for Comfort, Not a Catwalk

This is not the time to wear those heels you can’t walk in or that shirt that’s one wrong move away from wardrobe malfunction territory. Wear something that makes you feel comfortable and confident - whether that’s a killer jumpsuit or your trusty leather jacket.

Because nothing says “I’m approachable” like not looking like you’re moments away from a blister-induced meltdown.

4. Be Open to Opportunities - Get Offline and Into Real Life

Sure, swiping left or right is convenient, but there’s something magical about meeting someone in person. Chemistry is far easier to gauge when you can hear someone’s laugh or see how they talk with their hands.

Keep an open mind. Maybe your next great love isn’t your type on paper but surprises you in all the best ways.

5. Ask Curious Questions - People Love Talking About Themselves

If the conversation feels stale, become a detective. Ask questions that go beyond the boring basics like, “So, what do you do?” Instead, try:

• “What’s the weirdest thing you’ve done recently?”

• “If you could swap lives with anyone for a day, who would it be?”

• “What’s your most useless talent?”

People love talking about themselves, and when you’re genuinely curious, conversations naturally flow. Plus, it’s way better than awkward silence punctuated by nervous laughter.

Final Thoughts

Dating events can be nerve-wracking, but they’re also brilliant opportunities to connect with new people, build your confidence, and potentially meet someone special. Remember, even if you don’t leave with a love interest, you’ll have stories to share over brunch.

And isn’t that what life’s really about?

Written by Jade-Olivia Patrick

Jade-Olivia is the Events Manager at The Love Collective. She connects individuals looking for love through organising our Singles Events in London. Jade-Olivia has a bubbly personality which she brings to every event to make you feel welcome.